I received my chastity device on Tuesday morning, my first impressions were Great service, Very well constructed. Wow this thing is heavy. I am never going to be able to get this off without a key or a hacksaw. I put it on with some difficulty, used the stocking method for the tube, that was the best way. Aligned the Frenum pin, not easy, but manageable and locked the padlocks. Having already given the keys to my key holder. It was a great fit, I have ordered to big a size for the security ring and will have this remedied in the near future.

The first 24 hours. No pain, discomfort when I get aroused but not unbearable by any means. I had a very strenuous day that day and with an hour or two almost forgot it was there. I can pee standing with out making a mess or spraying every thing in sight.

The first 4 days. Still a joy to wear it has not been off and I have had absolutely no problems at all. To compensate for the security ring being to big a good pair of underpants do the trick.

I will send another update after a month. I have tried another device similar to this the Remy chastity tube and there is no comparison. The Lori Tube is the ultimate for me. Thank you once again for such a great device.

I have been using a CB-2000 for a while now and my Wife and I have directly observed all the benefits of keeping me 'chaste'. We have adopted the term 'muzzled' instead of 'chaste' or 'chastised' since it is, for us, a much better description of both the physical state of my privates as well as the emotional state of eliminating the dangerous/bothersome aspects of the male libido. (My Wife came up with that term!) We find it so illuminating - this stuff is for real - and are saddened that so many Women suffer so much abuse and disrespect at the hands of men - and the fact is that it can be fixed so easily, in a manner that I now know most men will end up enjoying. So, now that we KNOW this is the best way for men to live, it is time to get something serious and move away from the 'training wheels' of the plastic device. I am not pierced, although am willing to get this done to become securely muzzled. I hate to ask so many questions, but I could not find enough info on your site or the other related sites like Altairboy, etc. If there is a better FAQ on your devices I would love to see it. My questions are coming from my desire to be able to be muzzled indefinitely, so issues of comfort &sanitation are important to me.

Is the lock a bother when it's hanging on the side of the tube? I HAVE NOT HEARD OF THIS. I mean does it always rub on your leg or such? THE EDGES OF THE LOCKS ARE ROUNDED SO THEY CANNOT SCRATCH YOU, BUT IF YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT THIS YOU SHOULD BE WEARING PANTIES OR THOSE MEN'S BRIEFS THAT ARE REALLY PANTIES BUT HAVE A HOLE IN FRONT.

The weight of the device is also a concern, although I see that can be handled by a testie ring. Is the ring deemed to be comfortable by the men using them? I WOULD RECOMMEND THE RING IT SEEMS TO HELP KEEP THE WEIGHT OFF THE PIERCING, AND IT ALSO PULLS EVERYTHING UP TOGETHER SO GETTING A HARD ERECTION IS NOT POSSIBLE. EVERYONE HAS LIKED THEM SO FAR I HAVE HEARD NO BAD FEED BACK.

The reviews seem to indicate that the hood adds a lot of unnecessary bulk. I'd initially thought that complete encasement of the penis was necessary to achieve all the benefits, but I'm now coming to the realization that the only thing that is important is that removing the ability to masturbate or orgasm while wearing the device is the important thing. Is there any benefit of the hood to eliminate these things, or is the un hooded device sufficient?  THIS IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, WHAT HAPPENS WITH A LORI'S DEVICE IS IT FITS SNUGGLY TO START WITH SO IF YOU ARE ABLE TO GET ENOUGH OF THE NECESSARY STIMULATION IT SWELLS WAY UP IN THE TUBE AND THE EJECTING MATTER CANNOT GO THROUGH THE PENIS GIVING YOU THAT ORGASM FEELING. YOUR PUMPS WORK BUT NOTHING OR VERY LITTLE COMES OUT UNTIL YOUR SWELLING GOES BACK DOWN AND THEN IT JUST DRIBBLES OUT SLOWLY FOR A LONG TIME. SOME MEN HAVE MORE SENSITIVE ORGANS THAN OTHERS SO SOME CAN USE A VIBRATOR OR MANIPULATE THE HEAD SO THEY CAN ORGASM, SOME CANNOT, I HAVE ONE CUSTOMER WHO HAS SENT THEIR DEVICE BACK TO HAVE MORE BARS ADDED TO THE HOOD, SO IT IS JUST A MATTER OF HOW SENSITIVE YOUR ORGANS ARE.

Is it possible to use a vibrator on the tube to achieve orgasm? SEE ABOVE. It certainly is with the CB2000.THE C/B 2000 ALSO IS NOT SECURE, AS YOU PROBABLY KNOW, BY PULLING AT THE BASE OF YOUR LITTLE DICKIES YOU CAN GET IT OUT AND DO BAD BOY THINGS WITH IT AND WAIT TILL IT GOES SOFT AND PUT IT RIGHT BACK IN. HMMMMMMMMMMMM? DOES YOUR WIFE KNOW THIS? I BET NOT... YOU SEE BY BEING IN THIS BUSINESS I GET TO LEARN ALL YOU BAD BOYS SECRETS.(SMILE)THERE IS NO DEVICE BEING MADE TODAY THAT IS SECURE WITHOUT A PIERCING ON THE END OF THE DICKIES TO SECURE IT IN PLACE. THAT'S JUST HOW IT IS, TO OUR KNOWLEDGE THERE ARE ONLY TWO PEOPLE MAKING "MUZZLING" (I REALLY LIKE THIS WORD) ITEMS THAT REQUIRE PIERCING TO RESTRAIN THE ITEM IN QUESTION. GOOD LUCK IN YOUR DECISIONS, KEEP IN MIND IT TAKES ABOUT 4 TO 5 MONTHS AT THIS THE TIME TO GET A "MUZZIER" FROM US, IN THE LAST YEAR OUR DEVICES HAVE BECOME VERY POPULAR AND WE ARE BACKLOGGED, OUR USED DEVICES ON OUR "USED CHASTITY PAGE" HAVE BEEN BRING UP TO $150.00 MORE THAT NEW ONES AND HAVE BEEN SELLING AS QUICK AS ONE DAY. SO A LORI'S CHASTITY DEVICE IS A GOOD INVESTMENT. THINK OF WHAT THE PRICE WILL BE WHEN WE STOP MAKING THEM.

Mistress Lori I appreciate Your time in this matter. I appreciate all you have done for the cause.
My very best regards, Locked Up and Loving It, mT

Mistress Lori,

Thank you for your prompt reply. I have a couple more questions I forgot to post in the prior email, but I must elaborate on me and my Wife's feelings on all of this. The Muzzle has been the single most important thing to happen to us as a couple, and to me as a man. So much so that we are leaning very strongly towards taking on as a CAUSE the task of "Letting Woman Know the Secret!" This is much too important to keep to ourselves. But, of course, this is disturbing stuff to most of us westerners, and extremely scary to those who would keep Womanhood suppressed (i.e. most men). So we are a bit, shall I say, concerned about how to go about this. Everyone (well, folks like us who live in small-town America) is of course a bit afraid to come out of the closet on this.

For the record, my muzzling is my entire fault {isn't it always?}, meaning in this case that I'm the one who found out about how folks were solving that age-old problem we men are cursed with. My Wife now says that the Garden of Eden actually brought 2 curses upon humankind - women got painful childbirth and men got an insatiable sex drive (which I could argue is much worse). A man's libido certainly is a problem, arguably the biggest one humankind has.

Anyway, we had been married for about 10 years with our relationship slowly going downhill. Bottom line was that I was felling neglected because She wasn't interested in sex with me, I got depressed, played with myself all the time, which removed any incentive for me to actually solve the problem. She was feeling pressure from me, which turned Her off, and made Her even less inclined to want to 'be' with me. (I'm omitting the next 5 paragraphs of my story, since it is the Same old story, right?) (By the way, your descriptions of all of this are quite good... It REALLY hit home with the discussion of replacing the fantasy void with fantasies of my Wife as opposed to fantasies of "other women". That made lots of sense to both of us...)

Anyway, through some inspiration I figured out that it was the masturbation that was part of the problem (little did I know then how BIG a part of the problem is was!) and started to do some research on the web about it - curbing it, stopping it, etc. Of course it didn't take long to find Altairboy's site, and the more I read the clearer it became that the problem in our relationship was 100% my fault, not Hers at all. I knew that a muzzle would go a long way to fixing things up. (Little did I know, once again, how many things the muzzle would fix up...) Well, to make another long story short it took me about 4 weeks of discussions to convince her that a muzzle would be a good thing. (OK, let me be honest, that she could kind of see that it might help, so she agreed with me to go ahead and give it a try...) She of course could not understand it at all, but I suppose she figured there was SOME merit to what I was suggesting. We had a lot of illuminating discussions about the male sex drive, how we are constantly driven to 'release', blah, blah. Again, same old story. Finally I ordered a CB-2000 since it seemed the best solution for my needs at the time.

Well, it came; I got it all comfy-cozy, and locked it on. We have a very vanilla sexual relationship (which all men abhor, right {grin}?), so she really wasn't interested in the key holder roll at all, particularly since all of the material I could find on muzzling had a FemDomm kind of bent to it which, bottom line, basically turned her off. So while I could get SOME of the benefits of a muzzle, the major bennie (of Her as a Key holder) was missing... Looking back at it now, I had a LOT to learn over the next few months..

I DID see a lot of benefits right away (some within minutes of butting on my muzzle) though which included:

Reduced sensitivity - do you have any idea what it is like to have one of your most sensitive parts always swinging around & getting slightly stimulated? No wonder men are always horny... Those feelings were essentially eliminated totally. My penis was like, gone. No feeling whatsoever. A good thing, much less distracting... I now know one of the reasons Women aren't as horny as men are - their sensitive bits are all tucked away nice and neat, away from all but the most direct stimulation... For me anyway, and I think most men, when they get fully erect they focus on only one thing - ejaculation. My thinking was that well, the muzzle was good at keeping me from getting totally erect so that should reduce my unintentional (yeah, sure!) but unstoppable desire to RELEASE and allow me to focus on Her needs. I think it does do a pretty good job at that. Just having it on when getting intimate provides a strong mental stimulus to 'be nice'. And of course the feedback of having your balls stretched away from your body when trying to get erect does have a bit of a dampening effect (unless you like that kind of pain, of course.) (Now, wearing a clubFEM MCD, that's a whole different kind of damper, for sure!. But that again is a different story.) The feeling of wearing the muzzle is of course erotic in its own sense - a constant reminder of whatever it is you want or need to be reminded of. I finally had a good reason to have more intimate talk about my sexuality with my Wife (i.e. one that benefits us both, not just my interests...). Lots more. My message to men is: "hey, you want your significant other to be more involved with your sexuality? Muzzle it and its yours for the asking." And of course, when I stopped masturbating, after about 3 days I started to go up what I now call 'the curve' (I know someone else has a different use for that term...) The Feelings Curve. It is a combination of frustration and horniness. Both, but not either exactly. But I think my Wife came up with the term Forlornness (combo of Frustration & Horny, obviously {grin}) The longer I went between releases, the hornier I got. What I didn't expect at all was that along with that increasing level of Forlornness came an almost unbelievable sense of "I Feel Good". "Yes, I'm horny and frustrated, and I've never felt more alive in my life." And as I was to find, the longer I rode up the curve, the better I felt. So of course we researched this and then found out all about the benefits of conserving semen (yet another whole subject). Oh yeah, and multiple male orgasms, without ejaculation, of course. That's quite cool! The bottom line is that it is GOOD, really GOOD, not to ejaculate, at least for reasonable periods of time.

OK, so its this wonderful feeling I have, my Wife is getting much more of the attention She deserves (can I say a LOT More?), and life is wonderful. I really don't want this thing off. It's almost like it's better to NOT orgasm ever and keep riding up the curve (man do I hate saying that!). But oh, is it frustrating! Kind of like when you play with a loose tooth, it hurts a lot but you keep doing it. Well, maybe not like that.. Whatever, you can't explain it..

There are a bunch more, but to save time I'll leave them out - perhaps in another e-mail.

Onward. Well, lets just say that after a number of months of living with a muzzled man (man) my Wife is CONVINCED that muzzling a Man Works as described. No question in Her mind at all. This is good stuff. Still not really fully into the key holder role as of yet ("I really don't want yet another responsibility to worry about...") I mean she held the key but wasn't getting the rest of the benefits she deserved. Then I stumbled across your discussions of chastity on your web site, printed them out for Her, and the rest is history. She UNDERSTANDS. She must be in control of this, that She must be the one to fill my fantasy void, and that "now you are in real trouble, boy... I'm not sure EVER want you to take this off! I REALLY LIKE you when you are muzzled."

All right, so here are 2 open-minded folks that believe strongly that "Women Deserve to Know." We spend a lot of time discussing how a muzzle would solve this same problem in one friends relationship, the nasty problem in another's relationship, and on and on. We look at other Women and say to each other "if you only knew.." The main problem is that there is not a complete source of info out there that is A) concise, and B) not scary to the vanilla folks. We have to build a resource to discuss this in a manner that hopefully can get a lot of information in front of both men and Women so they can hopefully see that Muzzles are a Good Thing. No talk of femDOMM, of control, of whippings or sissy-maids, etc. No mention of Chastity Belts, or orgasm denial. Just nice soft straight talk (ok it's not that soft) about how men REALLY are, how this is BAD for Woman i particular and society in general, and how there is a solution that Works: Muzzle your Man. It really is that simple.

Why? Because Muzzling Matters!

Bottom line is that a muzzle focuses a man's sexual energies toward his partner. It increases them as well. All of them (the energies, that is!) And, for better of for worse, that is all a man really has to offer. That force drives ever f**king thing a guy does. Sad, no? Well, can't defeat biology. That is just the way it is... And all Woman deserve a muzzled man (of course {grin} if they want a man at all!) OK, I'm done preaching for a while. (Can you tell this is something I believe in?) Does any of this make sense? Is there even a chance in hell that we can help ANY Women? I know I want my daughters to be 'enlightened' when they get old enough. "Want Her hand in marriage? Sure, after you put this on young man and give her the key..."

Thanks for listening! mT

I hope all is well with you. My most precious Woman and I have been quite busy keeping up with all the interesting knowledge that the Goddess has been sharing with us. I'm sending you the following thought process I had yesterday just in case you see anything interesting or have any comments.

She had read in a book that in reality all human males are predators, either towards other humans or any other animals. In the case of Women, males are sexual predators. This led me to the following...:

The goal of this: to understand deeply the plight of the preyed upon Women from a sexual perspective. The reality of this: men have always felt guilt, a shared guilt that comes in from the common collective... Men try to hide from this guilt, to suppress this guilt, by suppressing the very origin of it - male domination of Women. They hide from it by perpetuating the very causes of it in the first place!!! Continue the domination & suppression and then you don't have to face the truth...

This guilt manifests itself in the following ways: Men have a number of very common fantasies:

This is so very clear now. These common fantasies of men are just manifestations of their attempts to get away from their guilt, to try to free themselves from the sexual predator within. They don't know this of course.... And that these 'kinks' as they are called are held in such a bad light by society is an interesting phenomenon, one that leads me to believe that the collective male predator is actively trying to prevent the use of these 'therapies' by individual males to gain in their healing... That this collective feels threatened by this and does what it can to suppress it.

I think that all men know this at some level, but that it gets drowned out. Society is just a manifestation of the (mostly) male dominated collective thought, and this is dominated by the sexual predator within. That's why all the media is so hell-bent on portraying Women as sex objects; this helps perpetuate this situation.

Thank you, T

Dear Miss Lori, I have been looking through various places on the internet in search of a chastity device to surprise my Mistress with as a present and once I can get over the idea of having myself pierced and asking Mistress permission to do so I will almost certainly be purchasing one of your devices.

Currently I have been called Toy by my Mistress for nearly 2.5 years and have a much different reasoning for looking into a chastity device than those written about in stories on your website, however over the last 2.5 years each and every use of my shaft has been at Mistress's desire and generally comes anywhere from 1-2 weeks all the way up to 1-2 months apart, many times with a great number of times Mistress teases me just to watch my reaction for her enjoyment.

Shortly after being honored with a collar by my Mistress she had placed her hand over my member, stared into my eyes, and uttered the words "this is mine... it belongs to me". She was overjoyed with pride in me when I agreed and had told her that since the first time I submitted to her will and desires I had not touched it save for cleaning and such without her having desired it to be touched even after some grueling sessions of teasing where I was ordered to spend 3-8+ hours bringing myself just short of climax, stopping, waiting an hour without allowing myself to go limp, and repeating, then being sent to bed. as a side note to those Women reading this who own male bits this is probably the single most difficult thing I've ever had to endure, right down to curling into a fetal position and whimpering at Mistress's feet because of it). Since that point she took delight in knowing how willing I was to do things to please her and especially enjoys watching me curl into a fetal position and hug her legs till I fall asleep knowing full well that despite the fact that the above mentioned teasing sessions often times leave me shaking and whimpering for hours. I will never touch myself nor ask permission to do so (cleaning and such aside since I have been given blanket permission to do so when needed).

Hello Lorie. You might like to read this. I think this says it all. I know that since John has been wearing his chastity he wants to stay right at my side. I think he is hoping for some freedom. Its not going to happen for awhile maybe next year. I hope you like this letter I found online good bye for now. Angel.

Phil, That's a really good question. Ok so let's be completely open and honest here. First there is NO physical device which can prevent the male orgasm. Orgasms originate in the mind and with the right set of events anyone can and will achieve orgasm. I HAVE had an orgasm with the Lori's tube. (surprise, shock) however, it was sooooooo unsatisfying that I might as well not have bothered. If the tube is properly sized the passage for the seminal fluid is so constricted that you can only drip where once you squirted. The PLEASURE in the male orgasm comes as the seminal fluid flows up and out triggering nerves in the process. So yes, I had drips which continued for hours but no, I didn't enjoy it at all. I encourage everyone with a tube to give it their best to masturbate with the tube on. Do it once. Do it twice. Do it enough that you conclude as I have that there is no joy in that kind of masturbation and you look elsewhere for your pleasure. I know that it will be hard for anyone who hasn't experienced it to understand, but I find it much more satisfying to give my wife a full body massage than to try masturbating with the tube. It has become a tremendous "turn-on" for me to massage her and I can continue for hours. She loves it and will allow me to massage her any time, any place. So you be the judge. Would you rather have 2 hours of pure sexual pleasure followed by frustration or would you rather have 30 seconds of sexual pleasure followed by frustration? I hope this answers your question.    Stan

A couple of suggestions. 1] Make the tube with a taper.  Mine is 1 inch in diameter. It would fit the contour of the penis shaft a bit better if it tapered from 1 inch to a bit wider at the back. 2] Make your locks with smooth edges! Thank you once again. John